![]() ![]() Please advise (and I have given help to my sister-two wrecked cars and I stopped). I can’t kick them out, as the property is not in my name, but my boyfriend tells me to quit paying for everything and let a foreclosure force my mother to either kick out my sister or come live with me. A call to my mother has her calling me cruel and crying about how she can’t be asked to throw out her “grandbabies” (who are 20 and 18)! I live in a different state and took on the financial burden so my mother could stay near her friends, not to take care of my leech of a sister. I saw the bills skyrocket this past fall and found out my drug-addict sister and her kids have moved in and are sponging off my mother. I have taken over the mortgage, lights, and water bill for her these past three years since my dad passed away. Deadbeats and deadlines: I have worked hard my whole life and am lucky enough to be able to buy a home and also take care of my mother. (Cat rave headphones! This has given me the greatest mental image I will have all day.) You are in a fortunate position: You get to feel quietly superior to this odd acquaintance, and you don’t have to do anything about it. ![]() If the cat objected to raves and the beach and restaurant patios, I have no doubt it would make its displeasure known. She’s made an aggressively odd choice, but it seems to bring her great joy. A: This seems like one of those situations the phrase “life is a rich tapestry” was created for. ![]()
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